Online dating has evolved from a taboo to a diverse landscape, with a multitude of dating apps catering to various preferences. Whether you're seeking love, romance, casual hookups, or something in between, there's a dating app for you. The sheer variety of options should fill you with hope and excitement for your online dating journey.
But just because there is something for you, it doesn't mean that you will be successful or, worse, avoid getting snared by the bots and scammers who proliferate seemingly by the minute on online dating sites.
But how can you make sure your profile is one people click on to see more of and increase your chances of sparking up genuine conversations that lead to something more?
Pick Your Apps Wisely
As mentioned, there is a dating app for pretty much any genre you can think of. If you are after a specific type of person, you can hone in on them in the right app instead of joining general apps. You can choose more than one app, but finding the right one is imperative, and this means knowing what you need and want from your online dating endeavors.
If you want casual hookups, there's an app for that. One-night stands, check. You can find dating apps for specific races and religions, same-sex dating, dating apps for people working in specific industries, and even overseas apps for dating outside of your geographical location. For example, the passport bro app helps men find love with women internationally so they can widen the dating pool.
Be Honest
You need to be honest about what you want in your profile. People are attracted to those who are like them, and if you're not being truthful, you likely won't get the results you're looking for. If you want children, say so, if you don't want to meet people who are already parents, be clear, if there is a certain religion you're looking to date only, be upfront, not wanting anything serious, put it in the profile. Your dating profile needs to be an honest representation of you so you can find people who think like you and can meet you where you need them to.
Choose Pictures Carefully
Images make all the difference as to who you attract to your profile. You want pictures that accurately represent who you are and what you look like. Avoid using edited images using apps or social media pictures with filters on. A photo can have a huge impact on how people perceive you, and while looks don't matter, everyone will initially judge a person on their appearance, especially in online dating apps. So have a clear picture of yourself, and avoid group pictures, blurry images, or those only showing parts of your body, as this won't give the right impression of you.
Be Specific
When it comes to your profile, less is often more. Be concise and specific about who you are, what you're looking for, and what makes you unique. This approach is more likely to catch the eye of potential matches who are scanning profiles, and it helps them quickly determine if you're a good fit for them.
Stick to the 70/30 rule, too. Your profile should be 70% about you and 30% about who you're looking for.
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